Most of modern relationships these days deminish this idea but for me this is one of the important thing that a person can hold on to. It's maybe unsaid rule but it is should be necessary for something else. For instance "I own that Cabinet" given such any idea that that cabinet belongs to you even without legal documents or so and just putting some label on it.



We should all know that since the beginning of our species it's been with this kind of thing. Even animals do it. They rub their butt to signifies that they own that land (or anything) or territory. This is one of the thing what keep us alive.


So always ask first what are you unto. If that person says 'i don't know I'm just happy, aren't you happy?' it's just a waste of time. it's things that only needs to be remember and don't hold on to it because at the end you will be hurt. Both of you will be hurt. In Filipino it's called "LANDI" NO MORE NO LESS JUST FLIRT.